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Many workers pressure themselves to say \u201cyes\u201d in order to accommodate and serve others. According to The Wall Street Journal<\/a>, people will say “yes” because saying no makes them more uncomfortable. If there is pressure within a job to say \u201cyes\u201d it can make declining a task even more difficult. However, sometimes there is a line that you should not cross, and that\u2019s when saying \u201cyes\u201d can lead to job burnout<\/a>.<\/p>\n

It is not good to say “yes” when you don\u2019t have the time or energy to follow through with a commitment without compromising your own schedule and existing obligations. For example, imagine you\u2019re occupied with a current project, an upcoming Christmas dinner at your place, your kid\u2019s sports activities, and a book club meeting. You have your schedule and priorities all lined up, and then someone asks if you can help them with their project. In this situation, you may want to help but will have to sacrifice an activity that matters to you. In this case, you should say \u201cno\u201d.<\/p>\n

How can you learn to say “no”?<\/strong>
\nSaying phrases such as, \u201cI\u2019m sorry, I have other priorities right now,\u201d and \u201cI have too much on my plate right now, but I know someone who can help you,\u201d allow you to say \u201cno\u201d without seeming inconsiderate. If you want to be helpful, but can\u2019t do the task that was asked of you, then find an alternative way to help get the job done. This can be done by suggesting a way to do it, or suggesting others who could help.<\/p>\n

Who should you say “no” to: only colleagues, never the boss, or everyone?<\/strong>
\nThe answer to this may seem tricky. After all, we already have a hard time saying \u201cno\u201d to others, why would we say \u201cno\u201d to our boss? However, to be an effective leader, it\u2019s important to say \u201cno\u201d to any opportunities that come your way that you honestly aren\u2019t able to handle. This means that you can say \u201cno\u201d to anyone who is asking you to do something that doesn\u2019t work for you, whether it be a boss or colleague. Doing so can actually have the unexpected effect of earning the respect of your boss if done correctly.<\/p>\n

How do you say “no” to your boss effectively? It is important that your goals are made known to your boss up front. Then, if you are asked to do something out of alignment with your plan, you need to explain the reasoning to your boss.\u00a0 This will show that you have the internal direction and focus on discerning what is most productive, which is a great trait in a leader. You definitely want to be proactive and take on opportunities that will benefit you, but being able to identify what is not beneficial is important as well.<\/p>\n

How does learning to say “no” contribute to work-life balance?<\/strong>
\nSaying \u201cyes\u201d all the time can lead to job burnout and unnecessary stress. We all have a pretty good idea of what we can handle and what we cannot. Unfortunately, we can\u2019t do it all and it becomes necessary to say \u201cno.\u201d Saying \u201cno\u201d can help with your work-life balance by allowing you to take control of your schedule instead of letting your schedule take control of you.<\/p>\n

Saying “no” when you need to will allow you to have other opportunities for creative, interesting ideas and a stress-free work experience. For more tips on important job skills, try the KnowledgeCity<\/a> courses: Coping With Stress in the Workplace<\/a>\u00a0and Time Management<\/a>. Get started today with a Free Demo<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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